It is October and the weather has been perfect. October is one of my favorite months on Cape Cod. The streets are quieter, the bogs and marsh grasses are changing color, and it is the month when Halloween occurs, one of my favorite holidays. We also start celebrating early, Dia de Los Muertos, Day of the Dead that falls on November 1 and November 2. It is a time to honor those who are gone but not forgotten.
Each year Ralph erects an altar honoring those who have passed before us with ofrendas or offerings that consists of photographs, food and drink, music, flowers and other symbolic items for the deceased to feast on and enjoy. It is beautiful tradition.
It has been quite a few months since our last newsletter and a lot has happened in that time. As many already know, we closed our Falmouth restaurant July 28. Unfortunately, the restaurant never caught on in Falmouth; it just was not profitable. Closing the doors was a very difficult decision not because of the money lost but because we had such high hopes and had invested so much of ourselves in the place and met so many wonderful people.
But as Judy Garland sang in Jerome Kern’s song so beautifully,
Look for the silver lining
When e'er a cloud appears in the blue.
Remember somewhere, the sun is shining
And so the right thing to do is make it shine for you.
The closing of Falmouth has allowed us to put the focus back on Harwich and all our marvelous friends and guests who we truly missed as we ping ponged back and forth between Harwich and Falmouth. We feel like we are home again. |